You can't change the past, but you can change the future!
Break the cycle.
Too many children are being damaged by the very people who are supposed to care for them. Refer to the cover of the North & South magazine below.
Parents fight and abuse their children. The development of the baby’s brain is determined by everything that they hear, see, feel and experience. Every experience sets down connections in the brain. Children who are in a negative or violent environment do not flourish. (See related Wanganui Chronicle article)
Children are not born bad. How they turn out is a result of what they have experienced within their immediate environment. Children are born with immense potential, it is up to parents to help them realise that potential.